tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272763603676562262.post8854583660908584229..comments2023-10-02T03:18:46.405-07:00Comments on Forever femme: Feminine or Masculine?Beccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11506653506780986151noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272763603676562262.post-23212057223468289562010-09-10T19:37:04.739-07:002010-09-10T19:37:04.739-07:00@ The Mother-I know I was using words generally as...@ The Mother-I know I was using words generally assigned to genders, but I don't believe that we look at it in gender-specific ways. I don't think anyone could look at C and think masculine = male, but I still believe that she is masculine. Maybe, I used the wrong terminology.<br /><br />@Elle-thanks so much!!<br /><br />@Faiqa- Yes, I am blessed that we love each other so much! Sometimes though, it is interesting to disect the way we are with each other.Beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11506653506780986151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272763603676562262.post-48264188434029545582010-09-08T21:27:38.106-07:002010-09-08T21:27:38.106-07:00Hmmm. Sometimes, I'm uncomfortable with the i...Hmmm. Sometimes, I'm uncomfortable with the idea of gendering behavior. Even within my marriage, there's a lot of bleeding over. My husband is a lot more "nurturing" than I am... I'm more pragmatic and far less diplomatic than him. In the end, the idea is that the two people match up, I don't know that it matters about feminine or masculine. It just matters that you love each other. Which clearly you do.Faiqahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14195313677689473346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272763603676562262.post-66195444195681345552010-09-08T00:16:10.625-07:002010-09-08T00:16:10.625-07:00You are not the only one asking these questions......You are not the only one asking these questions... And I have to say, just because you are asking the questions, doesn't mean you particularly "care" about gender roles in your relationship.<br /><br />I think you are merely making observations.<br /><br />Keep observing. All around you. Reality really IS what we make it.<br /><br />:)LGAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03631019001084319694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272763603676562262.post-48761592090429826232010-09-07T19:52:20.487-07:002010-09-07T19:52:20.487-07:00I have to ask--why do you, of all people, care abo...I have to ask--why do you, of all people, care about out-moded gender roles?<br /><br />Roles that have been enforced by society do not really have any bearing on reality. Reality is what we make it.The Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15157821003454766570noreply@blogger.com